What does it feel like?

Topic created by Crashing
on Fri, 18 Feb 2022 at 07:26

Crashing said on Fri, 18 Feb 2022 at 07:26...

I am a pegged bottom that loves when my fiance dons her strap-on and fucks me into next week. We have various sizes of dildos (slowly been increasing the size) and am looking to "up-grade" to a thicker one for a more "fuller" feel. Currently we use a Rubicon Leviathan 10inch dildo. We are looking at the Pipedreams 12" dildo with heavy-duty leather harness.

My question is; What does a real dick feels like? I'm not into guys or attracted to them at all, in fact I have tried my hand (no pun intended) at being with a guy, but I just can't get over the roughness of how they feel. Besides I love breasts and eating fanny far too much, and at over 40 years old, I think I am pretty sure that I like women, how they feel and how they smell.

I toying with the idea of renting a transgender escort to get over my curiosity, but I'm worried that with me pushing myself to bigger and bigger dildos I may not get the "whole" experience if we do cross that threshold. My fiance has tried fisting me, but she can only get in about half her hand, but the sensation of the warmth of her hand sends me into orbit almost immediately, is that what a real cock would feel like?

Bottom Boi said on Fri, 18 Feb 2022 at 14:32...

Hi Crashing; you sound cool that’s how I started with a girlfriend same way with strap ons, but I tried gay and loved it, I think you have a good idea about trying a transsexual some of them are so freaking beautiful with beautiful breasts and a beautiful smooth cock it’s like the best of both worlds, yes it’s an incredible feeling when a hung top slides into you it’s such a warm full sexual feeling I cum without touching myself quite often when you are with a good Top, have fun

The Patriot said on Sat, 19 Feb 2022 at 16:43...

Jesus loves you.

Crashing said on Sat, 19 Feb 2022 at 20:27...

Thanks Bottom Boi. For the kind words, the encouragement and the support. I am far from cool but I'll take it. Each to their own. ;-)

Bottom Boi said on Sun, 20 Feb 2022 at 01:46...

Hey Crashing don’t underestimate your self I like your ideas and don’t give up on the transsexual idea, Asian lady boys are absolutely gorgeous check them out

Rico said on Sun, 20 Feb 2022 at 07:00...

@Crashing: Based upon the information you provided, it appears you have now discovered - with the open-minded assistance of your fiancé - that you are anally erotic and enjoy having your prostate gland massaged, which normally leads to a very pleasurable and intense orgasm.
Speaking from many years of personal experience, let me give you some helpful advice.
Do not attempt fisting unless your anus and rectum can comfortably accommodate a dildo with a 3-inch diameter. That is to say, you receive erotic pleasure from the massage provided by the circumference of the dildo, but no pain or discomfort.
For women and men who might be interested in trying anal fisting, they need to know that it can take many months of "training" with dildoes of increasing circumference size to properly prepare the anal muscle and rectum (and even sigmoid colon) to safely accept a fist without discomfort.
Do not use many of the fisting videos you seen on the porn web-sites as a legitimate reference, because the technique used by some of the male tops on their female partners is grossly inappropriate and unsafe.
During your training period, immerse the dildos in very hot water for 10 minutes prior to insertion into the anus and rectum. The heated dildo will provide a much more pleasurable experience and will help open the anal muscle and inner sphincter muscle.
For an excellent lubricant, I recommend a 16 ounce can of Crisco shortening mixed thoroughly with the following: 1 ounce of antibiotic ointment, 1 ounce of Vitamin E oil, and 1 ounce of vegetable oil glycerin.
A very, very good dildo to use during your training period is the BAM dildo. You can also use it to massage and fuck your fiancés vagina.
Once you have reached the point where you can comfortably accept your fiancé's fist, you will want her to blow you while fisting you and massaging your prostate gland. You will have explosive orgasms, especially under the pro-sexual effects provided by your poppers.
Remember the following: respect your body, go slowly while inserting the fist, and use common sense. If you feel any pain, stop.

PJ said on Sun, 20 Feb 2022 at 21:54...

WOW...thanks Rico! you should be voted the resident fisting expert! never knew this stuff...thanks!

Crashing said on Mon, 21 Feb 2022 at 06:15...

@ The Patriot Thank you and to you too. Jesus Loves you.

Crashing said on Mon, 21 Feb 2022 at 07:04...

@ Rico; Excellent advise, will take it all in... puns intended.
I have figured out that it is the stretch and not length that gets me off, although sawing at my anus like a log on a band-saw can lead to a great anal orgasm too. Funny how I look at my older, smaller dildos and can't believe how much bigger I have gone in the past two years.

I am ordering an Icon Triad three way anal plug, the largest plug is 3inches in diameter. The moment I saw it, I got an instant hard-on, can't wait to have it stretch me out.
We don't have Crisco where I come from, I'm based in South Africa, but we have a varied range of water based, hybrid and silicone lubes I can choose from at the sex shops in my area.

The heating idea is something we have tried in the past, the heat does add a very pleasurable sensation to the pegging session, so much so for me, that I will orgasm only after a few plunges into my bussy from my fiance.
Before each one of our sessions, I will go shower and douche my hole before we start; while I'm in the shower I will tease myself a little to get me started and a little loosened up, the heated dildo from the hot shower does help me open up before we start.

All great advise from Bottom Boi and Rico, thanks and take care.

Popper Pro said on Thu, 24 Feb 2022 at 03:04...

@Crashing, as a bi guy none of the things you're doing will give you the same experience of an actual penis. The "reasons" that you give for not liking guys are ones that I used to use to try & control my guy curiosity. Not every guy is hairy or "ruff". Women have hair too, which is why most of them shave. There are naturally hairless guys, as well as ones who shave. Guys who moisturize and/or don't do "manual labor", tend to be as "soft" as females (some softer, especially if they're "metrosexual" ;-) . I even found guys like this while I was in the military.
You using dildos to "see what a dick feels like" is like using a "pocket pussy" to tell what an actual vagina's like. While I've never been fisted, I'd roughly equate that to jerking off to feel what sex is like. It might be similar, but there's stark differences.
I think the trans woman would be your best bet. And I've heard most of them are usually packing at least 9 inches. You really don't need a "huge dick" (over 9" ;-) , for your 1st real time. The warmth, texture, & pulsing of a dick really can't be simulated by anything else.
So if you want to know how "the real thing feels" then that's what you have to actually have.

Bottom boi said on Sat, 26 Feb 2022 at 02:47...

Hi Popper Pro I totally agree with you I use to try and avoid my interest in gay sex all the time till i finally tried it, best thing I ever did, to give into my desires to become a bottom, nothing compares to feeling a top man inside you it’s hard yet soft and warm and pulsating all at one up inside you OMG do I love it once you start bottoming you can’t stop, and poppers just make it so incredible it’s like surreal

Crashing said on Tue, 19 Apr 2022 at 13:27...

An update to this thread.
I got the Pipedreams 12" dildo and harness, and all I can say is WOAH!
This thing is big.

I thought it would be a struggle, so I got some Ramrod and Jolt Dominator poppers to help with the stretch, both are nAmyl and Pentanol based according to the label.

We started off with our Rubicon Leviathan 10inch dildo to help get me worked in and loosed up for the new dildo, and after a good 20-30min I felt I was ready for the 12".
I had a great big 10sec sniff of the Jolt poppers just as my Fiance started slowly pushing, squeezing and forcing her new big cock into my tight hungry bussy. Never before have I experienced an ass relax like that. The head-feel, body-feel and euphoria weren’t there like most other poppers, but the ass relax was absolute and like nothing I have felt before. That great big head of that dildo stretched my bussy out so much I had an anal orgasm as it popped past my sphincter and I continued to have two more as my fiancé slid the dildo past my prostate, I have never cummed so hard, so long and so many times as I did this past weekend. IT MAY WELL BE A BIT TOO BIG…

On the poppers side of things, Ramrod poppers was probably fresher than the Jolt, the smell is pleasant and sweet while the Jolt smells of old socks (locker-room). The effect of the Jolt brand is somewhat disappointing too, with very little head feel/rush but with an amazing ass relax effect I haven’t felt before (lasting up to 5min), while the Ramrod has the standard good rush and euphoria feel that most other poppers can give you lasting around 3-5min.